May 24, 2000
The following is a recent update from our friends Greg and
Kate Kremer:
To all who have been following our
story with Roberto and Brenda...
On top of his physical limitations,
Roberto has a disorder of some sort that binds up his left or right side
occasionally. It keeps him from being able to work on his therapy with
regularity. Working on this disorder was not part of our planned work with
Roberto. We didn't even really know of it until he arrived. So we were
unprepared with funds. But God does provide. We have received free care
and testing with the University Medical and Dental Hospital in Newark.
What a blessing.
Today we had a meeting with the head of
pediatric neurology at UMDNJ. She ascertained, with the help of some video
footage we shot last weekend, that Roberto does not have a seizure
disorder akin to epilepsy. She is quite certain that he has a motor neuron
disorder more like Parkinson's disease. These disorders are very rare in
children so there are only two centers in this county that specialize in
these diseases with children. One is in NYC and happens to be run by one
of her best friends. Immediately upon viewing the video she picked up the
phone and called him. As she put down the phone she called a nurse and had
the video fedexed immediately to NYC. So now we are being passed from one
of the foremost figures in children's seizure disorders to one of the
foremost experts in the world in children's neuro-motor dysfunction. We
are closing in on Roberto's problem and perhaps solution. Thanks be to
God.
If there were an occasion to pray this
would be it. There is actually a slight possibility that, if Roberto has a
certain disease, he will walk and talk unassisted. Please pray that all
goes well and that Roberto is given the gift of walking and talking.
On the homefront we have been working
on some major things as well. Roberto has had some real problems with
potty training. Brenda has tried everything she knows to get him to go and
was beginning to wonder about his ability in this area. She was really
downhearted. So we all put our heads together. We came up with... a potty
seat so that Roberto does not have to fear that he will fall into the
toilet! And we decided to begin trying to potty Tess at the same time. And
we put up a chart with Roberto and Tess' name on it. They each get a star
for every time they pee! All this in place, the next morning Roberto was
sitting on the toilet and Tess walked in. She walked right over to him and
put her arms around him and in her very knowing two year old voice said, "
I will help you go potty Roberto."
I translated. Roberto peed! We all
cheered! He has been peeing since. Seven stars yesterday, six today. He
just beams when he goes. God really does answer prayers.
And there are lots of other things to
work on. Roberto now has his own walker. When both his legs are
functioning he is practicing. He also has a communication device, a little
board with pictures. When he touches the picture it says a word or phrase.
He is learning how to use it and we are designing the pictures and words
to be useful for him. He is still going to physical, occupational and
speech therapy every week. We are very busy and are doing well.
Love,
Kate and Greg.